Former Civil War General and U.S. President Ulysses S. Grant (center) sits for a family portrait with his wife, Julia Dent Grant, and their children and grandchildren at his last home, in New York, circa 1883.

Julia Grant: Marriage to Ulysses Grant

Given 80 acres of land by her father as a wedding gift, Julia embraced the role of farmer’s wife in the 1850s. However, the process of turning the farm into a profitable venture proved difficult from the early stages and was rendered virtually impossible following the Panic of 1857. By 1860, the family was forced to move to Galena, Illinois, where Grant worked in his father’s leather goods store. The outbreak of the Civil War changed their fortunes, as Grant’s success as Union commander eventually provided a Julia with a more comfortable lifestyle.

Julia Grant and Ulysses Grant had four children: Frederick Dent Grant, Ulysses S. Grant, Jr. (known as “Buck”), Ellen “Nellie” Grant and Jesse Root Grant.

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Julia Grant During The Civil War

The American Civil War began in April 1861. Ulysses Grant volunteered for the Union cause and became a colonel of the 21st Illinois Volunteers. Later that summer, President Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865) made Grant a brigadier general.

Grant earned the nickname “Unconditional Surrender Grant” after winning a major victory over the Confederates in the Battle of Fort Donelson in Tennessee in February 1862. In July 1863, Grant’s forces captured Vicksburg, Mississippi, a Confederate stronghold, earning him a promotion from President Lincoln. Grant was appointed lieutenant-general by Lincoln on March 10, 1864 and given command of all U.S. armies.

Julia Grant visited her husband’s encampments often, sometimes traveling alone and sometimes with their children in tow, who were watched over by her slave, Jule—an interesting choice for the spouse of the leader of the Union Army fighting to preserve the Union and abolish slavery.

Letters between Julia Grant and her husband show she was a trusted confidante for him, and Grant even invited President Abraham Lincoln, first lady Mary Todd Lincoln and their son, Tad, to visit him at the front at Julia’s suggestion.

On April 9, 1865, Confederate General Robert Lee (1807-1870) surrendered to Grant at Appomattox Court House in Virginia, effectively ending the Civil War.

The Grants narrowly escaped death five days later when they declined an invitation from the Lincolns to attend a play at Ford’s Theater in Washington, D.C. on April 14, 1865. That was the night Lincoln was assassinated by John Wilkes Booth.

Julia Grant in the White House

Ulysses Grant was sworn in as the 18 president of the United States on March 4, 1869. He’d ran as a Republican with running mate Schuyler Colfax as Vice President. His first order of business was overseeing Reconstruction, a lengthy and often controversial process.

Julia Grant was an active first lady. She not only attended Senate hearings, but met with cabinet members, senators, diplomats, and justices alike. She read the president’s mail and was renowned for her hosting—a valuable skill in the Gilded Age. She hosted afternoon teas and public receptions at the White House and even held a wedding for her only daughter, Nellie, in the White House’s East Room in 1874.

Well-liked for her spirit and charm, Julia was not considered a traditional beauty. Described in some circles as “plain,” she was also slightly cross-eyed and squinted a lot. Julia wanted surgery to correct the condition before her husband convinced her it wasn’t necessary. Regardless, the first lady reportedly always insisted on being photographed in profile so her eyes wouldn’t draw so much attention.

The Grants left the White House after two terms in 1877, embarking on a world tour that May where they were greeted as international celebrities.

Julia Grant’s Death

Despite all the success and fame, they enjoyed as the first family in the 1870s, the Grants again faced monetary difficulties after failed business investments. Seeking to provide a cushion for his wife, Grant worked on his memoirs despite suffering from throat cancer, completing a mere week before Grant’s death on July 23, 1885. Published by Mark Twain, the erstwhile president’s book was a huge hit, and Julia lived out her final years in comfort in Washington, D.C., surrounded by friends and family. Julia Grant died of kidney and heart failure on December 14, 1902 at the age of 76. Julia Grant’s memoirs were not published in her lifetime. They first appeared in print in 1975 under the title The Personal Memoirs of Julia Dent Grant (Mrs. Ulysses S. Grant).


President Lincoln Visits City Point and Petersburg March 24-April 8, 1865.
Julie Dent Grant.

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